The Kink Addendum is a companion to our Yes/No/Maybe List, created specifically for exploring kink, BDSM, and power dynamics with more clarity and intention. This add-on invites deeper reflection around fantasies, curiosities, limits, and interests that may not always feel easy to name out loud.
Like the original checklist, this is meant to be a living document. Your responses can evolve over time, and revisiting them is part of the process. The goal is not to pressure yourself into anything, but to better understand what sparks interest, what feels neutral, and what is a clear no for you right now.
The Kink Addendum can be used for personal exploration, partner negotiation, or ongoing conversations about consent, boundaries, and desires. It provides structure for talking about kink in a way that feels intentional, grounded, and communicative, whether you are brand new to kink or looking to deepen an existing practice.
