The Yes/No/Maybe List is a tool for sexual self-exploration, reflection, and communication. It is designed to help you name what you are curious about, what you are excited for, and what is off the table right now. This list can be used on your own or with a partner as a starting point for honest, grounded conversations about desires and boundaries.
This is not a one-time exercise, and it is not a test. Your answers are not permanent, and there is no right or wrong way to fill it out. Desires change. Comfort levels shift. New information and experiences can open doors or close them. You are encouraged to return to this list whenever you feel like it might be time for a check-in, a renegotiation, or a new phase of exploration.
Whether you are navigating dating, long-term partnership, or non-monogamy, the Yes, No, Maybe List offers a clear framework for understanding yourself better and for communicating your needs, wants, and boundaries with more confidence and care.
Now, go forth and play!
