A Quick & Easy Guide to Consent

by Isabella Rotman, illustrated by Luke Howard

A Quick & Easy Guide to Consent is an illustrated, approachable introduction to affirmative consent that makes a sometimes intimidating topic feel clear, human, and even a little fun. Using comics, humor, and real-life scenarios, this book walks readers through how to ask for consent, how to give it, how to change your mind, and how to talk about boundaries in sex, relationships, and other forms of physical contact.

Guided by the unforgettable Sergeant Yes Means Yes of the Consent Cavalry, the book explores common moments of uncertainty—figuring out what you want, checking in with a partner, and navigating mismatched desires—without shame or fear-based messaging. Instead, it centers communication, curiosity, and mutual respect, showing how consent can be ongoing, enthusiastic, and adaptable rather than awkward or rigid.

At just 80 pages, this comic-style guide is especially well-suited for folks who want something accessible, inclusive, and practical, whether they’re brand new to conversations about consent or looking to strengthen their communication skills.

Why I recommend this book

I recommend A Quick & Easy Guide to Consent because it teaches consent the way it actually works in real life: through conversation, checking in, and care for one another’s boundaries. This is a book I often suggest for people who didn’t get clear consent education growing up or who feel anxious about “saying the wrong thing.” It normalizes learning, mistakes, and growth, while reinforcing that consent is about connection and respect, not rules or scripts. It’s an essential foundation for healthier sex, relationships, and community care.